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 * __ How to Handle Bullies __**


 * Do you have a tough time with bullies? Wishing that people would stop treating you with antagonism? Well this “How to…” might help you with your bully issues. I actually used to get bullied; and I still do. That’s how I know so much about bullies. If you don’t know how to stop bullying from happening to you, these are some useful tips that might help you. **
 * The first thing you can do is to ask an adult for help. For example, if you feel uncomfortable with some mean people who harass you, go to the principal or a student counselor. Personally, I prefer the student counselor because they will assign a certain time for you to come to the office and discuss your problems. Also, you will talk with your bully and discuss what you don’t like about what they are doing to you. **
 * Another thing you can do is ask the bully why they are bullying you. They might be troubled by something themselves. If they are, you don’t have to tell an adult. You can just help them yourself. Now you don’t have to take __this__ advice because it doesn’t work for __all bullies__. (What I’m trying to say is, not all bullies want to talk about their troubles with someone. Still, you can try this if you want because for some bullies this is the only way to bring them out of their “shell.”) **
 * This personally is my favorite way to handle bullies. You should ignore them. They are just bullying you because they either want attention or just to have a little fun upsetting you. What they are trying to do is wrong. Don’t give them the satisfaction they want. It’s like a dog; if they are misbehaving, don’t give them a treat. If they are calling you names, that doesn’t mean anything. If they are threatening you, don’t pay any attention. They won’t do anything; it’s just to scare you. I’ve been threatened more than 16 times, and nothing ever happened because I ignored it. That is why you should ignore whatever they say. **
 * I hope this advice works and helps you with your bullying problems. If it doesn’t work, then go to an anger management class or a psychiatrist and assign a meet there with the bully and it will work. No doubt about it. **** L **** To **** J **